Writing down every memorable steps under my feet and recording every sparks light in my mind.

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好久不寫了。這段時間發生了許多事,認識了許多人,一些所想所思不用文字記下,以後難以再憶起那些值得記住的感覺。

工作

從畢業到上班將近4個月,這是個不斷的時間。中間有驚喜,有失落,有過自我懷疑。很慶幸最後“不負眾望”,還是能找到個較“體面”的工作,雖然職位沒有特別理想,但是我已經達到自己要求,是個好的開始。而且重要的是,是我自己喜歡的領域。對自己未來事業的囑咐不多,努力!學習!FOCUS!
自己堅持的事,到最後總會是有意義的。勿忘自己的信仰!

家庭

爸媽身體不錯,病痛也少了,老爸“戒煙”,起碼少抽了許多。工作之後,就盼著他們能儘快退休享清福。勞累半輩子了,付出所有心血為我,但從來不給我壓力。每次回家,抱抱媽媽,摟摟爸爸,更願意把對他們的愛表達出來。一切將會更好的!

愛情

並不容易,許多繁雜事。她還在家裏,在決定來與不來深圳,討論許多,矛盾許多。對於兩人未來,我越來越不敢許諾。連自己也說服不了,如何忍心讓她來受苦。在討論未來規劃時,結婚,置辦婚禮,置業,無一不把我自信心拉到最低。家庭條件相差太多讓很多東西不能談妥,很多話題不得不以沈默結束,甚至也沒法轉去其他話題。現實終歸是現實,無論我有多堅信自己未來不要被條件束縛,面包暫時的確只夠自己吃。“自信”在她面前只能是一層薄薄的外衣,但也是僅存的籌碼。沒法承諾的未來,好像使自己承認已經開始輸掉她了。

2013年2月20日 深圳

"我现在要做的就是不断的训练自己更自律,保持头脑冷静,然后在市场成熟时再走出下一步。我们 – 两个公司 – 都要做更可持续的产品,不要只追求短期利益,要从深层次上去改变世界。"

- Jack Dorsey

"It is better to stay silent and be thought a fool than to open one’s mouth and remove all doubt.
宁愿保持沉默让人看起来像个傻子,也不要一开口就证明自己确实如此。"

- 亚伯拉罕•林肯

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每個優秀的人,都有一段沈默的時光。那一段時光,是付出了很多努力,忍受孤獨和寂寞,不抱怨不訴苦,日後說起時,連自己都能被感動的日子。

"那种电视上很职业很彪悍的所谓女强人其实都是纸老虎。真正的强势女人,温柔但立场坚定,优雅但必揽全局,随和但心有所属。"

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D o w n.

今天的心情一下子跌到了臨界點,已經好久好久沒有感到如此挫敗過,好像從未覺得過這樣的無助。我已經不知道怎樣才能走出這樣的困境。

她和我說了她的決定那天,我還未如此低落過。一直以來是我的理智不斷說服內心,要體諒要諒解;還是我一直是自己欺騙自己,不敢面對這一切。

每天晚上睡之前我都無比的難受。我不知道是不是在幾年前家裡的事已經讓我的眼淚流乾了,我到現在還沒有為這事流過淚。但也是因為這樣,我的心不停地絞痛。

我的心真的受傷了。

我承認我真的很不開心,我承認在她問我還愛不愛她的時候,已經不像過去那樣發自內心地說愛。我承認多少已經對她產生了防備。

我從來都相信”計劃趕不上變化“的這句話,但自己卻在感情上,全心全意毫義無反顧地為兩個人默默地築起了城堡。但是今天忽然轉身發現,城堡已被推倒,在趁自己還沒反應過來之前,想要重新砌回去,但是之前的城牆原來被推得太徹底,磚塊碎得已經沒辦法黏起來了。

精神似乎快崩潰了,只是不服輸的軀殼還撐著。

我不斷地對自己說,她只是不成熟,她自己也承認。我真的真的不想說正因為她當初不成熟不理智的決定耽誤了我。事實上,是自己做了不該做的事,在我沒有資格為兩個人計劃未來的時候,總是把事情想得太簡單,太理所當然,未來不知不覺已被規劃出了看似完美的畫面。原來不成熟不理智的是我自己。

習慣,曾經我覺得習慣是多麼幸福的事情。我習慣了她在我身邊,習慣和她分享開心與低落。但現在,習慣卻變成一件可怕的東西。我害怕我習慣了生活沒有了她,習慣了自己忙碌的上班生活,習慣自己對自己訴說着今天的鬱悶與愉快,或者不會再有什麼特別愉快。你也習慣了再家裡的生活,我更不忍心硬要你過來過着,我沒有能力給出承諾的生活。哪怕大家再怎麼努力,也找不到重新走到一起的理由。

Life must be go on

Someday I’ll be one of them, I’ll be an entrepreneur, a dream of mine. I always on the way and nothing can stop me!
Great entrepreneurs never walk alone.

Someday I’ll be one of them, I’ll be an entrepreneur, a dream of mine. I always on the way and nothing can stop me!
Great entrepreneurs never walk alone.

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How do you explain when things don’t go as we assumed, or better. How do you explain when others are able to achieve things seems as all of these assumption. For example, why is apple so innovative year after year after year after year. They are more innovative than all competitors, and yet they are just computer company. They are just like anyone else. They have the same access the same talent, the agency, the consultant, the same media. Then why is that they seem to have something different. Why is that Martin Luther King led the civil right movement. He wasn’t the only man who suffered discrimination in American. And certainly he wasn’t only the orator at the moment of the day. Why him, and why is that the Wright Brothers were able to figure out control power man flight. When there were certainly other teams with qualified better funded and they didn’t achieve power man flight. But brothers beat them. There are something play here. 
This discovery profoundly change my view on how I thought the world work and even profoundly change the way in which I operate it. As it turns out there’s a pattern, as it turns out all the great and inspired leaders and or organizations in the world whatever it’s. Apple or Martin Luther King or Wright Brothers. They all think act and communicate in exact same way. And it’s complete opposite to everyone else. All I did is codified. And it’s probably the world simplest idea. I call it THE GOLDEN CIRCLE.
This little idea explains why some organizations and leaders are able to inspire people. Let me divine the terms very quickly. Every single person every single organization in the planet knows what they do, one hundred percent. Some know how they do it. Well you call it you differentiating propositions or your proprietary process. USP( United States Patent).  But very very few people or organizations know why they do what they do and by why. I don’t mean to make a profit. That is result. That’s always result. By why I mean what is your purpose. What’s your cause. What’s your belief. Why is the organization exist. Why do you get out the bed at the morning. Why should anyone care. As the result, that the way we think, the way we communicate is from the outside in, it’s obvious we go from the clear thing to the fuzzy thing. But the inspired leader and inspired organizations, regardless of their size, regardless of their industry, all think act communicate from the inside out. For example, I use Apple because it’s easy to understand and everybody gets it. If Apple were like anyone else, a marketing message from them might sound this:
  • We make great computers. 
  • They’re beautiful design, simple to use and user friendly.  
  • Wanna buy one?
……nope
That’s how most of us communicate. That’s how most marketing done. That’s how most sales done, and that how most of us communicate into personally. We say what we do, we say how we different or how we better, we expect some sort of behavior, purchase, votes, something like that. Here is our new law firm. We have best lawyers, biggest client. You know we always perform for our client do business. Here is our new car, great gas, leather seat~ Buy a car? But it’s uninspiring. 
Here is how Apple actual communicate:
  • Everything we do we believe in changing the status quo. 
  • We believe in thinking differently. 
  • The way we changing the status quo is by making our products beautifully design, simple to use and user friendly. 
  • We just happened to make great computers. 
  • Wanna buy one?
Totally different right? You’re ready to buy a computer from me. All I did just reverse the order of information, it prove to us is that people don’t buy what you do, people buy why you do it. This explains why every single person in this room feels perfectly of buying a computer from Apple. But we’re also feel comfortably of buying a mp3 player from Apple or a phone from Apple or a DVR from Apple. But as i said before, Apple is just a computer company, there’s nothing that distinguish them structurally from their competitors, Their competitors are all equal qualified to make all these products. In fact, they’ve tried.
Few years ago, Gateway came out with flat a screen TV. They are qualified to make that they have made flat screen monitors for years, nobody bought one. And Dell, Dell came out with the MP3 Players and PDAs, and they made great qualified products, and they can make perfectly well-design products, and nobody bought one. In fact, talking about it now, we can’t even imagine buying a MP3 from Dell. Why would you buy a MP3 player from a computer company, but we do it every day. 
People don’t buy what you do, they buy why do it. The goal is not to do business with anybody who needs what you have, the goal is to do business with people who believe what you believe.
Here is the best part. None of what i’m telling is my opinion, is all grounded of biology. Not psychology, is biology. If you look at the across sector of human brain, looking from the topdown, what you see is the human brain actually broke into 3 major components, but perfectly with THE GOLDEN CIRCLE. 
Our new brain,                      the 大脑皮层 is responsible for our rational and analytical thought and language. The middle two sections make up our        brain, and       brain are responsible for our feelings, like trust and loyalty, is also responsible for all human behavior, all decision making, and has no capacity for language. In their words, when we communicate from the outside in, Yes, people can understand vast amount of complicated information like features and benefits and figures and facts, but doesn’t drive behavior. When we communicate from the inside out, we are talking directly to the part of the brain that controls behavior, and then we allow people to rationalize it will the tangible things we say and do. This’s where we got decision come from. You know, you can give somebody the facts and figures and we’ll say, i know all the facts and details, say but it just doesn’t feel right. Why do we use that it doesn’t feel right. Because the part of the brain doesn’t control decision making, doesn’t control language, and the best we can drop up is i don’t know it doesn’t  just feel right or some time you just leading with your heart, leading with your soul. I hate to break it. There’s other body part controlling your behavior, it’s all happening here in your 边脑. The part of brain controls your decision making and not language. But if you don’t know why you do what you do and people response why you do what you do, then how you get people to vote for you to buy something from you. Or more importantly be loyal and wanna be a part of these what you do. Again, the good is not just sale to people who need what you have, to sale people who believe what you believe. The good isn’t just hire people who need a job, is to hire people who believe what you believe. I always say that if you hire people just because they do a job work for your money, but if you hire people who believe what you believe, they work for you with blood sweat and tear. 
People don’t buy what you do buy why you do it, and if you talk about what you believe you will attract those who believe what you believe, but why is it important to attract those who believe what you believe. Something call the Law diffusion innovation.
If you don’t know the law, you definitely know the terminology. The first 2.5% our population are our innovators, the next 13.5% of our population are early adopters. The next 34% are early majority and late majority and laggers. The only reason people buy touch phone because they can’t buy wheel phone anymore. We all set at the various seat at various time, the law of diffusion innovation tell us, is that if you want mass market success, or mass market accept an idea you can not have it until you achieve the tipping point between 15% and 18% market penetration and then the systems tips, and I love asking business, what is your conversion on our business. They love to say Oh! it’s about 10% proudly. Well you can attract 10% customers. We’ll have about 10% who just get it, that’s how we describe then. That’s like they got feeling or the just get it, the problem is how do you find they just get it before you doing business with them and those who don’t get it. So is here, those little gap that you have to close, because you see the early majority will not try something until someone else has tried it first, and these guys the early innovators and early adopters are comfortable making decisions. They are comfortable making those into decision that are driven by they believe about the world and not just product is available. These are the people who start a line for 6 hours to buy an iPhone when they first came out. You can just walk into the store and then bought one of the shelf. These are the people who spent $40000 on flat screen TV when they first came out even though the technology was unstandardized. By the way they didn’t do it because the technology was so great. They did it for themselves. It’s because they wanted to be first. People don’t buy what you do they buy why you do it. And what you do simply proves what you believe. In fact, they would do the things that proves what you believe. The reason that they bought the iPhone in the first 6 hours was because what they believe about the world they want everybody see them they were first.
People don’t buy what you do buy why you do it.
Those who lead inspire us, whether they are individual or organizations. We follow those who lead not because we have to but because we want to, we follow these who lead, not for them but for ourselves, and it’s those start with “Why” that has the ability to inspire those around them or find others who inspire them.

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Today is my last day in Hongkong. It means this journey has been over, meanwhile, another started.

I got so many amazing memories in this place. “It’s gonna be the most important turning point of my life”, Olivia said on the first day I move to Hongkong. It’s true! I have gained a lot that i value and cherish. It told me what am I really wanna do, what is truly worth to spend my life time to do, and I’m determined.

Goodbye Hongkong! Goodbye Sophie, Kelvin! I’ll be back one day.

I’m leaving, but my best experience and memory are left in this beautiful place forever!

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週末晚上在鳳凰衛視上看到陳文茜的節目,之前有聽聞過她的名字,原來是台灣的政治人物,現在成了資深媒體人。她在節目當中提到她的一本新書《只剩一個角落的繁華》。在她講述“被時代拋棄的迷失一代”,“The Lost Generation”的時候。也許是神經對這些字眼特別敏感,自己內心感覺到就是在說自己。仿佛這書裡必有這一代人的拯救藥方或者指引的燈塔,來告訴我們是否還會繼續迷失,是否還有希望。節目一結束,立刻上網在Amazon下訂單,第二天上午書就快遞到了,當天晚上便看完。

光從書名看來,只剩一個角落的繁華,看似書裡的故事將會帶有對現實失望,無奈的色彩。主要以此次歐債危機為主要線索,通過深刻地刻畫幾位受歐債危機牽連的小人物,表達出陳文茜對當今世界格局,未來形勢的擔憂。

失落的一代

還沒到2012年12月的“世界末日”,全世界已經籠罩這比電影中的地球崩潰情節還要恐怖的氣氛。在還沒走出2008年次貸危機的陰霾之時,歐債危機再一次把人類一步一步推向深淵,踩入煉獄。或許還有很多人並沒開始為此擔憂,因為還有人在守護着吹彈可破的最後一層防備。一旦它被完全捅破,人類發展將會倒退多年,影響之深將比大蕭條的13年還要嚴重。兩次的區別只是這次沒有觸發第二次世界大戰。

這次復蘇至少十年,我們這一代人剛結束學習進入社會便要失業,等到經濟開始復蘇的十年之後,新釋出的工作將被屆時年輕人取得,我們失業十年,技術知識的更新使得我們落後於年輕人。我們也許從此就永久失業,成為夢無所依的老男孩,從此歷史賦予我們只剩下失落的一代的稱號。

陳文茜說錯的不是我們,錯的是這個時代,世界對不起我們。樹葉才開始泛黄,葉子都尚能攀得住大樹,為什麼時代之樹連一個小小的生命也撐不起呢?

人民開始罵時代,罵政府,罵所有的不公。人民要把民主推向了盲目的位置,一切只要稍作違背“民心”的事,就被批判為社會的渣滓,文明的絆腳石。人民失去理智,聽從,跟風。喪失了獨立人格的思考。網絡的繁榮,twitter,微博的興起極大程度是受此推動。但所有所有,歷史不會為此停留。這僅僅是歷史中一頁書,甚至一段字。

金錢與權利的誘惑

由次貸危機到歐債危機,一切源於一個叫“華爾街”的銀行家的無邊際的貪婪。欺詐民眾,向民眾兜售有毒金融產品。人民受苦受難地為他犯下的過錯而埋單,特別是那些勤奮努力工作的亞洲子民,不停地為美國銀行家,歐洲的富二十代為奴為婢,從幾百年前開始。

帕潘德里歐,希臘總理,柏拉圖、亞里士多德的後代,將好不容易歐洲高峰會完成的希臘國債紓困方案丟給了公投。此瘋狂的傻逼之舉,被所有人斥之為“混球”。將複雜的經濟事務交付公投,尤其要希臘民眾自己投票同意降低工資、延長退休年齡、延長工時、取消福利補貼、多繳稅等等換取歐元區紓困,在人性政治上根本是天方夜譚。為之逃避責任,保住政治地位,對權利的病態迷戀。

中國能否拯救世界

中國超越日本成為全球第二大經濟體,中國受屈百多年,官方理應煙火禮炮齊賀此刻,但統計局卻異常冷靜謹慎。“這只是量的總和,中國的高GDP是靠高耗能、低工資換取而來,無論國家生態、民工的血汗都為此付出了驚人的代價,因此量上超越了日本,值方面比不上,中國經濟結構仍有待提升。”

郎咸平曾評論過,中國根本算不上“世界工廠”,頂多只算是個“世界加工廠”,中國所獲利潤之微薄,根本抵擋不住歐美老板、客戶們的折騰。陳文茜說中國人都是打工仔,郭台銘也就是個高級的打工仔。美國為了解決本國就業問題,工廠逐漸遷回美國本土,歐洲人經濟衰退,各個勒緊褲頭,減少消費。中國的“世界加工廠”將多米諾骨牌般奔潰。

60%的GDP都是投資鋼筋混凝土建高鐵建世界最高大樓。溫州動車事故或許本可以處理成一場單純意外或工程缺陷,改進後讓中國高鐵繼續飛躍,但它撞在一個脆弱且魯莽的中國機制,暴露了中國政治最敏感也最脆弱的神經,也終於阻止了中國繼續往前大邁進。

當這一切都停止了,中國還能否保持高增長率,還能否真正崛起?

強大不是靠冰冷的數字決定, 幾億條牛仔褲還能否換一台波音飛機?金牌的數目多少就能充分體現我們就是體育強國嗎?2012倫敦奧運,羽毛球、舉重、自行車、體操、游泳、擊劍,多少次謊謬的誤判與赤裸裸的歧視,扼殺了運動員四年來的等待,十多年的汗水與淚水,但這一切不公都默默忍受著。我不主張韓國日本他們事事申訴的做法,這是對公平公正公開的權威的不尊重,但這是給實力較弱的國家爭取應得榮譽的途徑。運動員的遺憾甚至“愧疚”的淚水讓國人看著心痛,他們並沒有對不起國家與人民,是國家對不起他們,是我們對不起他們,但我們偏偏無力反抗,在我看來連那些只為爭取多年努力一個公平肯定的國家都不如。

中國真的崛起?真的強大嗎?我們也就是靠多年的辛勤勞動攢取一些錢,獲得些好名聲,才獲得參加這些遊戲的資格而已;但是我們仍然無法充當遊戲規則的制定者,麥克風暫時還不會舉到我們的面前讓我們發言。

世界不會在我們眼前倒塌

《只剩一個角落的繁華》一書將要結束,故事幾乎讓讀者越來越感到失落。失落的一代還沒看完便開始覺得今後的日子無法翻身。就在本書結束前的最後一章,我認為才是全書最最核心的部分,告訴我們世界不會在我們面前倒塌,我們還有希望!一個全世界熟悉的人物的故事——Steve Jobs。

遺棄,使他獨立;寵愛,使他自信。在脫軌、殘缺的人生中,世界因他而更完美。當Jobs聽聞“雷曼倒閉”時,只揮一揮黑色的衣袖,“別讓外在的噪音干擾我們的心聲。”在他人生的路上,他總是對其他“無關緊要”的事說不,這使他有能力專注且不鬆懈地持續自己的創造力。他的著名語錄之一——“Simple can be harder than complex.”

特別認同陳文茜對Jobs的說法,她問:他比歐洲銀行倒閉風暴早走了八天,如果他還活着,他會害怕?會恐懼嗎?

一點也不!他相信自己的創見;相信任何時代人都有路可走;哪怕一無所有,光著腳,只要真誠地專注於一些有價值有意義的人與事,世界不會在我們的眼前倒塌!